I received an advance readers copy of “The Adoption Paradox by Jean Widner. As an ally to many members of the adoption community, I was excited to read Jean‘s book and she did not disappoint. So well researched, poignant, and relevant. Before reading this book, I was one of those rose tinted glasses people that believed adoption was the best option. Now I know better. Jean educated me in the horrors for (a lot, not all) adoptees, birth parents, adoptive parents, siblings. She taught me about the inconsistencies in the system, particularly when it comes to internationally adopted children and domestically born children of color. There is so much room for improvement, Jean offers options and statistics to support her positions. Thank you for the eye-opener. Well, written should be read by all in the adoption universe, particularly those lawmakers, social workers, lawyers, and judges who are part of or have authority over the adoption process and laws.
-Lori B
