I received an advance readers copy of the book
Let me tell you—I’ve read a lot of books about adoption over the years, and The Adoption Paradox by Jean Widder easily ranks at the top of the list. I thought I had a solid understanding of adoption and its complexities, but this book opened my eyes in ways I didn’t expect.
What makes this book stand out is its powerful blend of personal narrative, in-depth research, and compassionate truth-telling. Jean doesn’t just skim the surface—she dives deep into the layers of what it really means to be adopted, to adopt, and to navigate life with those experiences shaping you.
Whether you’re an adoptee, an adoptive parent, someone considering adoption, or a professional in the field, this book is essential reading. It’s packed with lived experiences, expert insights, and evidence-based studies that challenge common assumptions and bring to light the realities often left out of the adoption conversation.
What I appreciated most is that Jean manages to present hard truths with grace and empathy. She doesn’t push an agenda—she invites the reader into a more honest, informed, and healing perspective.
If you want to understand adoption on a deeper level—beyond the glossy narratives and simplified stories—The Adoption Paradox is it. I’m so glad I read this, and I’ll be recommending it for years to come.
-Melissa Brunetti
